kok bisa2nya ya ada sebuah diskusi yang meng'amini' poligami?
Menganggap hal tersebut wajar karena merupakan hukum ALLAH...??
Gue sebenernya males banget posting topik ini di blog gue
cuma pas baca berita di atas, sampe geleng2
kagak penting banget seeh, sampe perlu diadakan diskusi segala, buang2 duit bgt seh !
Mendingan juga tu duit dijadiin forum utk diskusi penggugatan kebenaran tragedi Mei, tragedi semanggi, kasus munir, dll
mau tanya aaah?
Mana ada Tuhan yang menginginkan ciptaanNya tersiksa
apalagi ciptaannya yang paling sempurna :)
Kan selalu tertulis, Suami diiijinkan jika Istri Mengijinkan
Kok ya perempuan2 di forum diskusi atas bodoh sekali dengan mengganggukkan kepala menyetujui kepentingan syahwat lelaki2 pilihannya ??
Yes, I said it again...
IT is only FOR the sake of Male Sexual Needs
Here's some statements that support my thoughts:
Hopefully those idiots and fools who supports, approves and practice polygamy have time to read it (naaaa, I don't think so)
The Koran severely restricted the open practice of polygamy. The statement in the Koran that deals with polygamy is just one yet it is misused and abused by both Muslims and
Non-Muslims. It states:
if you fear that you will not be able to deal justly with the oppressed
women [Yatama- literally, the Orphans among women-see the context],
then marry from among them two or three or four, but if you fear you
wont be just [even then], then marry only one (Koran 4:3)."
- belong among oppressed (orphan) women. Men cannot pick and choose from "any" women who they want as a second wife
- Polygamy is to be practiced only if marriage would bring social justice to such women, justice that they are otherwise denied.
- If marrying more than one cannot bring such
justice then polygamy is not allowed. Thus the Koran severely restricts
the open practice of polygamy in society.
Don't be such a hyprocrite (A person who professes beliefs and opinions that they do not hold), because such hypocrysy (Insincerity by virtue of pretending to have qualities or beliefs that you do not really have / An expression of agreement that is not supported by real conviction) could leads you to nowhere but your own misery.
It is US, The Women, Who could decide whether the polygamy could be practiced by the Man or not. It is not the other way around. So don't trap yourself into stupidity and hypocrisy. If you don't approve, SAY IT ! Say It Out Loud ! Put It in Your BLOG!
Many Indonesian failed to see the criteria of the second/third/fourth wife.
Do all the other wives of Rhoma Irama, Aa Gym, Hamzah Haz, Puspo Wardoyo, AM Fatwa are from the oppressed women (not rich, beautiful, single, sexy women)?
Do all those above men manage to bring SOCIAL Justice (not just financially Just) to all their wives
Be smart, don't be naive (or stupid) !